So I have a “Friend” who is having martial issues with her husband and she has been for a couple of years. I really like her husband. I think he’s a really nice guy.
“Friend” sit around and talks negatively about her relationship while the other women around kiki it up for their own amusement. That bothers me for 2 reasons. 1. It’s none of their business. and 2. why would someones relationship issues be a source of amusement for you?
I really want to tell her to stop doing that. Keep that to yourself and stop badmouthing him, especially if you’re not leaving him.
Today a lady who sits next to “Friend” asked her, “So what are you doing for valentines day?” Friend says, “Oh, probably nothing.” Other chick says, “With a husband like yours, I knew that was the case.” and proceeds to crack up. I’m over here thinking to myself, why is this okay? and where they do that at? If “Friend” doesn’t bring it up then you shouldn’t feel free to comment in that way.
It bothers me a lot. It took everything in me just now not to call the lonely bitter lady out and not to snap at “Friend” and tell her, stop talking to this bitch about your situation. She isn’t your friend. She loves that you’re going through it.
But I didn’t. I just plugged my earbuds in and zoned out to my music.
I was reminded why I keep my business to myself around these parts. smh.