I wrote this entire blog post and it didn’t post and its disappeared into cyberspace! Just UGH!
I’ll have to do that post again next week. It’ll be better anyway because I’ll have pics of Jasmine’s birthday. Can yall believe my child will be 2yrs old in 4 days! I know I can’t. She’s excited about a party, I don’t think she realizes it’s hers yet.
Have yall ever noticed or been a part of online cliques? I’ve seen them up close and personal and I really wonder what kind of lives these people DONT have to be online and clique’in it.
When I started this blog, I would randomly visit the blog of other people and I would see the same people commenting. I’d toss a comment in here and there and whatever I said would be ignored or even worse someone would respond with some smart shit to say. I was like, “oh, ok, they’re a cliq, I get it.” but I would still be left wondering. . “where they do that at?” It also makes me wonder if these people are just “popular” online and have no friends outside in the real world so they soak up the attention.
I just feel like I’m too old and too grown to act that way toward anyone. It’s never that serious lol. Blogging, tweeting, Facebooking mean different things for different people. To me its a means to express myself candidly. A place where I could care less what anyone personally things about me because these are my thoughts and my feelings. It has also become a way to meet and connect with people who are a lot of times like minded and you’d never meet otherwise. I’ve met some really awesome people throught social media and look to meet more in the future.
I guess the point of all this is, be your damn self! I mean. I guess you don’t have to really. these people dont know you IRL so you can truly be whomever you’d like to be. I just thinking being yourself is so much easier.