So Friday I go and check my mail to find that I have something from the department of child support services. I thought they were sending me another letter asking for more information like that had previous. I ignored that notice. I decided that I did not want to further participate in any shenanigans concerning sperm donor. I refuse to be a part of the “baby mama” club. That is not my motto, so to see that envelope I can say I was a little peeved. I had already written this dude off and have gone on with my life as if he never existed.
I open the package and start reading. The letter is an order for SD to pay child support. It’s a very small about of money but considering SD probably has SEVERAL CHILDREN I was not very shocked by the amount.
Now either SD went and put himself on child support ( which I highly doubt) or he stopped running from all the open claims her already had. In any case, I guess Jas wins. I’m really hoping he doesn’t try to surface now. I haven’t seen this dude since March of 2009 and Jas was born in October of the same year, you do that math.
My baby will be 3yrs old next month and this dude has never laid eyes on her in person. I’m not in the business of introducing my child to strangers and the fact that he’s a stranger because he chose to be.
Jasmine has a wonderful daddy who has been there from the beginning and will always be there no matter our status ( his words not mine). We both love him so much and are very blessed to have him. He says he’s the blessed one.
Back to the point, it’s a win for Jas because he should be helping financially although I don’t need or want his help. But it’s not about me, it’s about what’s right and what’s right is this child support order.