I had the strangest dream last night. Sperm Donor was at my parents house sitting in my old bedroom there crying about the fact that we broke up. Like boo hoo crying. My sisters were laughing at him. I was annoyed. I’m sure this dream came about because various people keep bringing him up and asking if he’s contacted us. Of course he hasn’t. That would be too much like right. When will people understand that I could care less about this dude. He is not a factor in my life and he hasn’t been since the beginning of 2009. I’m over it. I’m not concerned with his funds or lack there of. I’ve been doing rather well taking care of MY child and she definitely does not need that stranger to provide anything for her. I refuse to force a person to be a parent. It’s not THAT serious.
I have stopped trying to potty train my child. I am kind of over it right now. When she tells me she’s ready is when I will begin again. She traumatized me a tad last weekend. Instead of popping in the potty that I put in the living room so that she could sit and not be in the restroom alone, she went and pee’d AND pooped in her bed! I didn’t know what to say for a good 10 mins. I took the sheets she had on her bed and threw them in the trash. I ran her bath water. I wiped her butt when some wipes. I put her in the tub and washed her up without a word. Then I explained to her how GROSS what she did was. She even got a spanking because it was unacceptable. She KNOWS better, but if she wants to pee and poop in her diapers then I am okay with that for now because I cant!
My honey called me yesterday just because. I love when he does that. He also asked what I wanted for valentines day. I don’t think he realizes that I don’t celebrate that “holiday”. I like to feel loved and appreciated everyday, not just because the calender says Valentines day is the day to do it. However, since he wants to, I’ll play along. February 14th is my granny’s 83rd birthday. Gonna celebrate that all day! lol
Speaking of my Granny, my aunt had the idea of making her a family calender for her birthday. Next weekend my fam is gonna get together and have some pictures taken for the calender. Each family ( my granny had 9 kids ) is gonna have a family photo taken and each month will focus on one of the families in order of birth. My mom is the 4th born so we’ll occupy the month of April 
My pandora goes from playing something sexy to playing Smokey Norful. I can’t with them and their random selections. They also try and slide in alternative music on my R&B station. I need them to get it together STAT!
My favorite white blog sista is coming to cali for work next month. I am planning on hugging her. She says she hates hugs. . . O.O< === That’s me not caring about her dislike of hugs. Let me tell ya, Jas doesn’t care either! lol
I’m on the hunt for a new job. I’m also on the hunt for a larger place to live. I need to make more money and I need to not be in the same room with Jasmine anymore. She talks in her sleep very loudly. Most nights I can ignore it but last night. . .The child was growling in her sleep! She also yelled out more than once, “NO! DON’T TOUCH THAT!” I don’t know who was bothering her but she was pissed about it.
Lately my phone as been annoying the crap outta me. I called Tmobile and complained about my touch screen doing whatever the hell it wanted. The guy I spoke with told me there was an update that should fix all of my issues. I downloaded it yesterday morning and when my phone powered back up after the update, it looked like a brand new phone! I love all the new features. As long as it doesn’t start trippin again, I may keep it for awhile longer.
It’s suppose to rain this weekend in So. Cali. Im kinda mad about it because I wanted to take poopy. . . I mean Jas to the park so she could get her play on. Doesn’t look like that’s gonna be going down.
I’ve been feeling kind of Blah lately. I don’t know what that’s about. After the rain passes maybe I’ll do my hair and dress up a bit and see if that helps my mood.
Thats all for what’s on my mind. What ya’ll got going on?
*hi Deja*
I don’t even know where to start. I hope to NEVER have the poop incident go down at our house. We aren’t pushing the potty either. He’s just not ready. The family calendar sounds like a GREAT idea! Your granny is gonna love it.
I hope you don’t have “poop gate” either! Its not the hotness!
#teamwaittilbabiesareready! Lol
The calender should be awesome. Granny will love it for sure
I’m mad that I’m like the last to know on the new layout *rolls eyes* lol! So bright and pretty, I love it!
Poop in the bed? *shudder* I’m still traumatized by this toddler poop in diapers, I can’t imagine it in the bed, all over the place… *dies* I’m not trying to push the whole potty training thing either. They *just* turned 2, they have time, lol!
The Sperm Donor……*rolls eyes* anyway, lmbo!
I’m glad the phone update worked well for you! I tried the software update on mine, and it worked well for a while, then went nuts :/ I had to restore everything back to factory settings. If I try it again, I’ll do it the “right” way, lol!
I love the family calendar idea! That’s so sweet!
The “blahs” will pass you by soon enough!
that’s because you don’t come over and visit enough!
Yes girl pooped in the bed and right now, I’m done. Just for now tho. She will be potty trained by spring tho. I’m sure of it. She’ll be a year and a half by then but I’m not pressing the issue. They did JUST turn 2.
*rolls my eyes too*
Yea the update is working well however, my screen is still a tad on crack!
The calender is gonna be great!
You already know why I’ve been blah and it had passed
New layout! I like it!
Dont give up on potty training! I totally agree that it comes off as easier to just let them go head and keep going in diapers. But not in the long run. I do find it hilarious though that Jaz pooped in the bed (only because it wasn’t me). Sounds like a nightmare to clean up!
My pandora station was upsetting me by playing christmas mucis last week. Get over it!
Oh my goodness the child talks in her sleep? I have never heard of a kid so young doing that.
Thank you!
I’m not giving up 100% but I think maybe she’s just not ready yet. Lucky for me the poop was easy to clean up because I threw the sheets away! Lol
Man that pandora! *shakes fists*
Yes she talks in her sleep and loudly!
You ain’t hugging me.
Jas can.
The end.
Its gonna be a huge group hug all long and drawn out! Lol
I love the new layout! I only noticed it today because I added you to bloglovin and when you want to comment it takes you to the actual web page.
NICE!!!
Potty training….is going slowly. I refuse to traumatize myself or Pookah by rushing it. But I do plan on him being potty trained by the end of summer. His poopy diapers and getting…horrendous….
And Pookah talks in his sleep too. SMH. these kids….
You know I never go to my own home page. When I did before I changed it, I noticed how dark everything was and that’s not my personality at all.
Yea I haven’t been rushing her to be trained. I just know she’s smart enough to tell me when she has to go and not poop in her bed! Ugh! Lol and yes girl these grown baby poops are gag worthy.
The sleep talking is horrible!
I’ve been reading through google reader for the last week or so, so this is my first look at the new layout. ME LIKEY!!
Team DIAPER! My son simply isn’t ready and I’m not ready for the stress. **shrugs** It’s got to work for both of y’all so don’t feel bad for stopping.
**shhh** give her a hug for me too!! LOL!
You know I’ve still got a blackberry with a trackball. ‘Nuff said.
Thank you honey! I like this new layout too!
She’s gonna be back in diapers as soon as this box of pull ups is gone! Lol she’s not ready and I’m okay with that.
I need you to not have a trackball tho o.O @ your trackball lol
Oh I’m gonna hug her long and good for us all! Lol
You can’t make a man do what he does not want to do. The poop incident is bad I have never had that happen I think my kids are scared of me and they would not dare do that. When she is ready to be potty trained she will be. Everyday is Valentines I heard that have a great weekend.
You sure cant. And I don’t plan on trying to do that ever. Jas should know better than pooping like that. It made no sense! I agree that everyday is valentines day. We don’t need one day for that.
Oh Booskie I hope you feel better! Rainy days make me feel blah too! I had plans for today and tomorrow and this rain is jacking that!
I know Jas accident in the bed had to be awfully traumatizing! Geez… glad you survived!
If you find a fella who wants to celebrate V-day please indulge him with all the excitement you can muster
It’s great you will be celebrating grammy’s b-day too! Yay! Love the calendar idea! <3
Our rain is just now starting today. And should continue through the weekend :-/
I survived. . .barely!
Yea the calender should be really nice
I’m gonna celebrate with him but its not something I typically do. Like we can go out on the 15th and love on eachother ya know?
Weird dream! I hope it doesn’t mean he’s about to show himself. that would be ugh.
We’ve reached an impasse too on the potty training. I’m just to big and tired to force the issue. I remember when Marlie pooped on the floor a couple of times when she first started. Making her clean it up nipped that in the bud. She still peed on the floor a few more times, but I can deal with that a whole lot better than dookie!
Love the idea for a family calendar for grandma! I hope you share the final results.
I can no longer have Marlie sleep with me because she snores like a freakin’ hog. She gets that from her daddy.
Lord I hope that’s not what it means either. I don’t know how i’d deal with that seeing how I don’t care for him in the least.
I’m mad you said dookie! Lmao! Yea I poop was enough for me to take a time out from potty training. It was too on purpose for me
We had a calender last year with pics from out fam reunion from 2010. it came out great.
Jas snores like a grown man too. But at least she’s in her own little toddler bed lol
Re: The Poopy Story. I’ve heard of that happening and it makes me shudder just thinking about it! Glad you survived.
Re: The Family Calender. Great idea! I use Shutterfly for stuff like that.
Re: Sassy J talking in her sleep. #dead Baby Boo sleeps in our room, too. It’s a bit much. We will be moving this summer and I can’t wait!
I’m so tramatized by the poop! You just don’t understand. I was in the livingroom! She got too quiet and I went in there to find the poop in her bed! *screams!*
My manager for my apt building is a parttime photographer. She’s gonna take the pics for us. I’ll get a shot of just me and Jas too. I’m excited lol
Yes she talks and loud. That’s something she got from her sperm donor. I cant!